I still get my jollies through masturbation, however. I have a nice collection of sex toys hehe!
I'm a lesbian, so I am attracted to women and I am also a female-to-male Transsexual. I'm pre-ho and pre-op. I may transition in the future I am unsure of that outcome. So, I still have the body of a female, but identify as a man.
So, to summarize I'm vi/blind in darkness, lesbian, and FTM hows THAT for a triple wammy!!
My vi is no big deal to me. I've lived with it since I was born. Basically I am looking for people who I can relate to on any or all of these levels.
And that is my brief introduction.