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|Tuesday, March 4th, 2008|
fNew LJ Community
Hi all, I created a new community for all blind chicks who like chicks. I named it blindlesbians but It's for bisexual women as well. I tried to go back and rename the community but I'm having some mild difficulties accomplishing this mission. Those of you who want feel free to join my community and if anyone has suggestions on how to go back and fix the game let me know. Current Mood: okay
|Monday, March 3rd, 2008|
Dating and Blindness
Hi all, I am Lisa and fairly new to LJ. I actually created an account forever ago but didn't start writing till recently when my life got crazy. So have any of you encountered sighties who believe blindies should only date blindies? I'm a member of Pride which is a GLBT group at my school and it is their firm belief that blind and sighted people should not have anything to do with each other romantically or sexually. Any thoughts? I'll give mine and if any of ya wanta respond, feel free. I feel that blindness shouldn't be a dating criteria. It's like saying blacks should only date blacks or mexicans should only date mexicans. It's rediculous. I think it shouldn't matter. It makes it harder that we're a minority and us blind chicks who like girls are even more of a minority. I also tend to be more attracted to sighties, I dunno why. I've just seen some cute sighties out there and damn I wish they didn't have such shallow views. I've dated 2 blind wmen but never a sighted one. I want to date a sighted one. I have dated blind and sighted guys but the sighted guys all ended up being well messed up. Ok, if any of you have any opinions bout this based on your experience, feel free to write. Current Mood: curious
|Monday, August 20th, 2007|
I read the ancient post here where they talk about using water from bath etc. to masturbate. Has anyone tried this6 If so, how does it feel?
I confess that I love giving and getting foot massages and wish I did both a lot more often. Not a sexual thing, I just love it. Any takers? LOL
|Thursday, June 7th, 2007|
Hi, My name is Nathan. I'll get straight to the point, so here is my story. I'm legally blind vi, with night blindness (Not very romantic having sex with the lights on in my opinion). I am a virgin when it comes to vaginal penetration, but done everything else. Vaginal penetration is something I've always had a hard time with. Gender dysphoria also contributes with that one.
I still get my jollies through masturbation, however. I have a nice collection of sex toys hehe!
I'm a lesbian, so I am attracted to women and I am also a female-to-male Transsexual. I'm pre-ho and pre-op. I may transition in the future I am unsure of that outcome. So, I still have the body of a female, but identify as a man.
So, to summarize I'm vi/blind in darkness, lesbian, and FTM hows THAT for a triple wammy!!
My vi is no big deal to me. I've lived with it since I was born. Basically I am looking for people who I can relate to on any or all of these levels.
And that is my brief introduction.
-Nathan Current Mood: chipper
|Tuesday, April 24th, 2007|
pregnancy protection the ring
Hi all, this list is kind of quiet. Today I went to the doctor, and we all know that protection during sex is a wonderful thing. I am in a steady relationship with only one partner, and am mainly concerned with no bubbies at this time. My doctor gaave me some samples of the noova ring. I had sort of a bad reaction you could say to the pill. So I'd like to know if anyone else has tried the noova ring, and if not I have a link discribing it a bit for the curious. It seems like a neat option, but I'd like I'd like to hear good or bad comments to hear if anyone else has used it.http://www.nuvaring.com/Consumer/new/aboutNuvaRing/index_flash.asp Current Mood: curious
|Thursday, January 4th, 2007|
found this community today and thought i'd introduce myself. i'm a creative writing grad student at cornell university in ithaca, new york who's legally blind. i'm one of those people who's both sexually open and romantic. i also am all about defying stereotypes.
and btw, my biggest dating/sex frustration is that when i'm in public places my girl friends would say that some cute guy is checking me out but i would have no idea whether i find the person attractive. there's this whole stereotype of people seeing each other across a room and falling in love. what if my guy has already seen me across the room and i couldn't see him? :)
|Tuesday, August 8th, 2006|
new speach software
I just got this new computer from my disability support people to take with me to college. It's got different speach softwares, like Zoom Text, that I've never used before. But, after only useing this speach software for a couple of days, I'm completely addicted to it! Now I can read all these sex LJ's much easier!
Isn't it weird to be listening to this completely unsexy, inhuman, monotone voice reading words like, "fucking," and "penis," and "pussy"" *laughs* After a while of it, I start thinking and reading sex things in that voice, too! So now what, am I gonna nead my next boyfriend to talk dirty to me in this robotic voice to get me off? LOL Current Mood: cheerful
|Thursday, August 3rd, 2006|
The smooth introduction
I was formatting my LJ and deleting groups and I almost forgot I joined this one. Oops.
But this one seemed interesting enough in more than one way.
I'm sighted (surprise) and male (wow, really) with an interest in blind people, while also not wanting to seem leacherous. I read that I'm not alone in this, but I still feel like an outsider. But I'm attracted to blindness and albinism and a few other uncommon interests (like bondage but where nobody ends up crying or bleeding, does that count?).
I also write and I include characters that are usually neglected from mainstream art, but I try not to center on any one affliction, since that's how Hollywood does things already.
I'm attempting to be accurate with my characters so I'll be lurking.
Talking too much already, just wanted to say hello. Current Mood: curious
|Tuesday, July 18th, 2006|
just joined, introduction time
Hello! I just joined here, so I figured I should give an introduction...
Well, I'm a 19-year-old female, virgin (pretty much), right on the border line of not being legally blind (so I've got a good deal of vision in good conditions), and loveing this private LJ I've made for myself! I love what sexual activities I've done so far and I do love masturbating--no I'm not afraid to admit it *laughs*! I'm hopeing I'll find a good boyfriend when I get to college this August *sigh*. I'm getting awefully eager to explore this newly awakened labido of mine...!
Anyways, I haven't had time to look through much of this community yet, cause I don't have any sort of JAWS program here and my eyes are killing me lately from all the online reading. So not totally sure what to share on here quite yet. But I've got alot of stories, pics, drawings, quizes, and other things of a fun and sometimes naughty varity on my LJ if you'd like to friend me. :)
Oh, and I noticed that the mediator of this community has deleted their account... Is that a problem? don't you need a mediator for any community...? I'll find out about that some time.
Well, hope to read lots of hot entries in here! Current Mood: cheerful
|Wednesday, July 12th, 2006|
New member saying hello
Found this community on a search for various blind communities. I thought it was interesting so thought i would join. I am a totally blind graduate student from pennsylvania and I really enjoyed reading a few posts below regarding sighted people dating blind people and vice versa. I have had some bad experiences with semi relationships in the past, you probably know the kind, you get to know them then you find out that they weren't really dating you, they were doing it because they felt sorry for you.
I don't really have many friends/oppertunities to get in to relationships in the town I'm in at the moment but I will be moving out to pittsburgh for grad school in august so I hope to meet new friends there. I haven't had luck meeting friends when i was getting my undergrad degree, I wasn't antisocial, it's just that folks didn't want to seem to get to know me outside of classes or school work. If i'd ask someone to hang out, go somewhere etc, they mostly had excuses of "i have work or my boyfriend/girlfriend/family is doing something etc." It was sort of weird and after a while, I sort of stopped trying to get to know people. Which is probably a negative thing on my part but as I said, I hope moving to a new area may change things for me.
I also recently met someone online through a mailing list I've been on since around 1998 or so. It is a list for fans of the singer Sarah McLachlan and the people I have met over the years were/are some of the nicest people I've ever met in my life. This person and I have been talking online through msn/e-mail/skype for a while now and we have many things in common and have both expressed liking each other as more then friends. However, we think we should just take things slow, meet each other first or see how we feel in the upcoming months and go from there. She is sighted and that is one reason I enjoyed reading the sighted/blind post below. I think she is the first person to truely accept me for who i am and by that i mean, looking past the blindness to see the real me. We also have been finishing each others thoughts/sentences which i think is a little weird but funny and we also believe in many of the same things. She is from canada and the distance will of course be a factor. Does anyone have experience with long distance relationships between a blind and sighted person? Since the person in question is currently not online and I wanted to finish this post this evening, I apologize to her if she didn't want me to mention any of this. I thought I would just ask however to get peoples opinions, since the people who post here seem very nice.
Well i guess that is about it for now, thanks for reading and have a good day.
|Monday, July 10th, 2006|
Hey there. I see this place has been inactive for a good while. Let's hope I can revive it. I just joined and I am totally blind. I joined this group to hopefully talk about sex and related matters with some other blind people. I am 29 years old. I love to masturbate. Do any of you like to masturbate often? That'll be it for my intro post. Hope to hear from you all and get this place lively again!
|Saturday, June 18th, 2005|
Restricted Zine Update
Hey folks, just letting you know that RESTRICTED: voices on disabilities and sexuality is looking for contributions for the next edition slated for publication September 1, 2005. Submissions are due no later than August 5, 2005. Please email firstname.lastname@example.org or check our webiste: http://www.restrictedzine.net
for more information.
You can still order Volume 1 Issue 1 Spring 2005 copies!! They are availible in .pdf, large print, cassette, and standard print format. See our website for ordering details.
RESTRICTED Zine is also on LJ!! restricted_zine
|Monday, May 2nd, 2005|
So how does a sighted girl pick up on a blind person?
Without seeming leacherous that is. I've always found the idea of a blind partner or lover very enticing. In a society where appearance is so all-encompasing as to weather you are attractive or not and thus accepted or not it seems like a blind lover/partner/friends would engage you on a different and new level. I also would like to know what attracts you as a blind person to someone initially? voice? Smell? I am so new to this please enlighten me.
|Thursday, April 28th, 2005|
|Tuesday, April 19th, 2005|
Ok, I have a question for the sighties here who have dated/are dating a blind person. I've never really asked this to any of the guys I've date,d, and its probably something that you just completely look past, but...does the lack of eye contact ever make things, well, different? I guess I always hear about how when people are intiimate they always look deep into each others' eyes. However, that may well just be a load of crap.
|Saturday, April 16th, 2005|
RESTRICTED: voices on disabilities and sexuality up and running
For those of you who remember, this is the "In The Making" zine that has changed names since then. I posted about wanting contributors a while back. Some of you did, and you're in. We'll have hard-copies availible around town and for a nominal $2 printing/duplications fee. But you can read all of this online. Yes indeedy. Want a copy? Check out our website
|Tuesday, April 12th, 2005|
I just happened upon this community and thought it looked like fun. I am 22, totally blind, and I have a guide dog. I am in a serious relationship of nearly two years. I look forward to reading and commenting on future posts.
|Friday, April 1st, 2005|
Hi, my names Ernest, and I just joined this community. I've been vi for the past 10 years, and I had meningitis, so that is what made me vi. I'm 37 y-o, student at a community college here where I live, and I'm also gay, but I like reading everyones journals, and it would be nice to get a blind perspective on sexuality as I don't get too many these days!I look forward to reading posts here. I use JAWS.
Ernest Current Mood: feeling very groovy!!
|Sunday, February 13th, 2005|
I just thought I'd post here because its a rad community and it'd be cool to see it get more active. :) Current Mood: awake